I think the essayist Rebecca Solnit is right. We can peer into groups like the manosphere any time and bemoan the hate, the misogyny, the racism, the homophobia and superficial values, along with broader polarisation and distrust. But surely one of the best ways to combat them is to foster communities driven by decency, calm and care. Watch some of these blokes say horrible things about women in front of their nan, see how that goes. Find out if they would accept anyone describing their nans the way they describe other women.
The nannasphere isn't just for grandmothers, but anyone who wishes to join. It's just a nanna vibe.
So, this is my call to those of you wondering what on earth to do about the grief and horrors of the world, how to manage overwhelm. It's not about looking away or distracting yourself. It's not about disconnecting, but about pooling strength, gathering together.
Gather the nannas around you — nannas in spirit, male and female, young and old — and nurture a community. Look after each other.
Analysis: The nannasphere is an antidote to the world's grief and horrors. By Julia Baird, ABC News